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Signs of a pathological liar12/28/2022 ![]() ![]() Little lies in the relationship eventually become big onesįurther to the previous section, it is very difficult to identify a compulsive liar at the beginning of the relationship, because the lies they come up with are usually small and over issues that may not seem important. The compulsive liar will disappoint you time after time, and maybe at the beginning of the relationship you’ll justify it, along with them, in a variety of ways, but at the end, you’ll understand that you can’t possibly have a normal relationship with them.ħ. One of the most important things in a relationship is mutual trust, and if you can’t depend on the person beside you, there’s no way you can have a truly loving and meaningful relationship with them. It is impossible to have a normal relationship with him If you think you can change a compulsive liar, know it's impossible - this disorder is so deeply embedded within them that they can’t see what they're doing wrong, even if you tell them. They can’t be moved, they don’t care if you cry or beg, and the only thing that interests them is their feelings. They lie mainly for self-gain, no matter who gets hurt. Many pathological liars have no apathy or ability to see how their lies affect others. ![]() At the same time, you’ll feel as if you are walking through a maze every time you hear them speak - whenever you think you’ve called the liar out on their lies, they’ll add a new detail that will leave you exhausted from trying to understand the truth. The pathological liar has no problem changing their story 10 times and will never admit to it. In contrast, when a normal person lies, there is a small voice inside that tells them they’re doing something wrong, but pathological liars have the "ability" to suppress or ignore this voice.Įvery compulsive liar gets twisted in their lives but they’ll never admit it, instead just adding more stories and details until you couldn’t possibly believe what they’re telling you. Such people are often sociopaths or narcissists, and these mental disorders help them to not feel bad when lying. The compulsive liar doesn’t harm people around them just because of their lies, but also simply because of the fact that they are compulsive liars in the first place – they are manipulative people who make you feel guilty for not trusting them, even though they are lying. Sometimes the compulsive liar will even get irritated in order to divert the conversation in a different direction from their lie, in order to confuse you and make you feel guilty for snooping. Even if that isn’t the case, they will justify their reason for lying. The compulsive liar knows inwardly that they are lying, but must live with themselves somehow, so their mind will try to protect them by convincing them that they are right. Even an innocent question like "Have you eaten lunch" can get a "no", while the liar did have lunch - they just can’t tell the truth because they’re so used to lying about everything - big and small. While most of us will lie to avoid putting ourselves in harm's way, to protect another person's feelings or to physically protect another person, the compulsive liar will lie about everything, even if it isn’t necessary. They lie about everything, no matter what it is In the end, you will also find out what your options are in dealing with such a person, without being repeatedly hurt by the habits of the compulsive liar.ġ. No one wants to find themselves in a relationship with a compulsive liar, which is why you should be familiar with these seven red flags. Of course, everyone lies from time to time, but compulsive liars see no reason to stop, even when lying isn’t really necessary - as if they are allergic to the truth. ![]() These behaviors can be positive or negative, and one of the most damaging to relationships is the tendency to lie compulsively. We all have certain behaviors which we use to further reach our goals - if a particular behavior isn’t beneficial to us at all, we would do anything to stop it. ![]()
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